Loss of Cpl. Nathan Cirillo: Rosie and Chissy, Where’s your compassion?

When most people hear of a loss that was meaningful to someone, they express empathy and say, “I’m sorry for your loss.”

A 5 year old little boy lost his father, and we Canadians lost someone that served in the Canadian Armed Forces for our protection. This moves us.

This affects us not only because someone who served for our country lost his life, but because it was also a threat to our sense of safety, as a result of an act of terrorism – spurned from anger and resentment.

How often have you had someone shoot his way into the White House and manage to be in such close proximity to one of the doors of the president? Not really a weekly event for you, either.

Our experiences, as a society, are supposed to make us empathetic with each other, as human beings.

If you told me about a traumatic experience you had, where someone you cared about was killed, I wouldn’t respond by coldly insisting that I’ve had more people killed in my environment than you….

Loss is significant, regardless of the numbers, and it hits us at the core. And add terrorism to it… It’s not just a typical Wednesday for us…but a traumatic event. Where’s your compassion?

 

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